chore: finalize release docs and harden release flow

1 files changed, 2 insertions, 2 deletions

diff --git a/README.md b/README.md
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@@ -53,7 +53,7 @@ Press `ctrl+b q` to detach the client. The server and pane processes keep runnin
 
 **Copy.** Herdr copies pane text, not the sidebar. Drag-select inside a pane, double-click a word or token, or press `prefix+[` for keyboard copy mode. In copy mode, move with `h/j/k/l`, `w/b/e`, and `{`/`}`, start selection with `v` or Space, copy with `y` or Enter, and leave with `q` or Esc. In PuTTY and some SSH terminals, hold `Shift` while dragging to use the terminal's own selection, and `Shift` + right click to paste.
 
-**Update and restore.** `herdr update` installs a new binary, but a running server keeps using the old process until it is stopped or handed off. Run `herdr server stop` for the default session, or `herdr session stop <name>` for a named session, then start Herdr again. `herdr update --handoff` is experimental and tries to move live panes, including foreground processes such as dev servers, from the old server to the new one. If `[session] resume_agents_on_restore = true` is enabled and current official integrations are installed, supported agent panes can restart from their native agent sessions after a server restart or update.
+**Update and restore.** `herdr update` installs a new binary, but a running server keeps using the old process until it is stopped or handed off. Stop the old server to use the new version. Stopping exits pane processes. Run `herdr server stop`, then run `herdr` again for the default session. For a named session, run `herdr session stop <name>`, then run `herdr session attach <name>` again. `herdr update --handoff` is experimental and tries to move live panes, including foreground processes such as dev servers, from the old server to the new one. If `[session] resume_agents_on_restore = true` is enabled and current official integrations are installed, supported agent panes can restart from their native agent sessions after a server restart or update.
 
 **Keybindings.** Herdr uses explicit keybinding strings. `prefix+n` means press the configured prefix, then `n`. `ctrl+alt+n`, `cmd+k`, `alt+1`, and function-key chords are direct terminal-mode shortcuts and do not need the prefix. Plain direct printable keys such as `n` steal normal typing, so use `prefix+n` unless you intentionally want a modifier-gated direct binding.
 
@@ -67,7 +67,7 @@ Herdr notifies you when a new version is available. Run manually:
 herdr update
 ```
 
-`herdr update` is for installs managed by Herdr's own installer. Homebrew and Nix installs update through `brew upgrade herdr` or your Nix workflow. See [install docs](https://herdr.dev/docs/install/) and [session state docs](https://herdr.dev/docs/session-state/) for the full update, restart, restore, and handoff matrix.
+`herdr update` is for installs managed by Herdr's own installer. Homebrew and Nix installs update through `brew upgrade herdr` or your Nix workflow, then use the same stop-and-run-again flow if a session is still running the old server. See [install docs](https://herdr.dev/docs/install/) and [session state docs](https://herdr.dev/docs/session-state/) for the full update, restart, restore, and handoff matrix.
 
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